Need hugs please.

[redrose]

Well where do i start?

I am new to this site and don't post much,but i do visit it every day to read posts to try and help me feel just that little bit better.

Well must admit i had a c**p xmas and not that good a start to the New Year.

I suffer from HA,depreesion you name it and i have it.
Well my story is that the bussiness that we own has been going down hill now for the last 4 months,so that means not much money coming in to say the least.
We live in a rented property(privatly owned) and have missed paying last months rent
There is another one due on the 12th of this month,and we just don't have the money to pay it,not even enough to feed ourselves, can't pay the gas bill or electric in fact nothing.
We are only living on my partners pension which is next to nothing a week.

I feel so stressed and down right now i don't know what to do.
I have had all these thoughts in my head today about ending it all as i can't see any future for us now.
All i can think of is us being on the streets and having to sell all our furniture

So please can you give me a big hug and tell me things will be ok.

Sorry to bother you all,and for being such a pain and ranting on.
Needed to get this off my chest.

[Believe]

Hi Redrose,

Hope that you are feeling some better. I know it seems very dark for you at the moment but please remember the sun will shine again.

I hope that you get the rent worked out, talk to the owner, maybe they will work with yall. Also are the agency there to help with these things, we have them in America.


Take care,

[doglover]

redrose

What an awful way to start 2008. I really hope that things sort them selves out for you and am sending you lots of good vibes and hugs

Donna

[Nibbles]

Have some big hugs from me Redrose.

Have you or your partner any family you could call upon? If not perhaps you could get in touch with the council. I've found a leaflet that we use at the library where I work and I hope it is useful. Here's the link:

http://www.clsdirect.org.uk/en/legal...eaflet06_1.jsp

Take care,

Mike

[groovygranny]

Big coming your way redrose.

So sorry things are looking so bleak for you.

Have you thought about going to see the Citizens advice Bureaux? Maybe they could just put you in touch with an organisation that specialises in helping people in circumstances like yours - which sound as though it's none of your doing, just very bad luck.

sending lots of love to you and hoping you'll get the help and advice to improve your situation real soon.

Take care

[honeybee3939]

Hi RedRose

So sorry to hear of your troubles hun, have some hugs from me too..



Some good advice from GG and Nibbles regarding the contacts. I would contact the electricity and gas company also, they may be able to work out a plan for you to make payments monthly or even suggest a payment token metre which they can fit where you pay only for what you use and also take a little bit of debt off each time you get a token.

Hope you get things sorted soon hun thinking of you

love

Andrea
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