Hi,
This friday I have to go to a family party, I say have to, because I have run out of excuses for not going to events. I have been dreading this since before christmas.
You see it won't really matter whether it goes well or it goes horribly wrong because I will worry and dissect even the smallest thing the next day. I WILL worry myself sick that I didn't talk enough - because I will be terrified-
that I looked miserable, that people didn't like me enough to talk to me. Thats even before the panic sets in.
As I've said it won't matter if it goes fine , after its over I'll just go on to worry about something else it could be a big thing like friday or some ordinary everyday thing. Its so tiring! I feel like I'm not in control of me, I feel like I don't know how I became this bad, how my life became this bad and I don't know how to move forward.
Before I read a few of the posts on this forum, and the advise makes good sense, written by people who have been there, who know what they are talking about. I understand that you have to try to move forward I just don't
know how to get there. I don't know how to start.
I'm not sure this even makes any sense, I think I just had to write it down now hopefully I will be able to get some sleep. I still have four whole days of work to get through before I even get to this party and thats bad enough.
Sorry I know this isn't a very happy post. Anna