like to clear some stuff up

[eeyorelover]

Oh for crine out loud!!!!
You know I've tried to be the voice of reason but it just seems like I am wasting my breath !!!
Can't anyone see that the back and forth doesn't accomplish anything but hurt feelings???
That is doesn't make anyone change their opinions??

GEEZ!!!!!

Let's stop the back and forth and move on to something constuctive!!!
xxx
Sandy

[trac67]

Nice one Sandy,

Can I point out also that Admins do have better things to do with their time than have to sit and watch one thread all flippin evening for fear of it 'kicking off yet another arguement'

Personally if we ever get a poll asking should chat be closed I for one would be saying yes, it would make our lives so much easier

Trac x

[kellie]

well well well lmao saying there is a clique in chat is the most stupitest thing i have heard. ive never got that feeling every one is great as far as im concerned. and omg lou you dont mince your words do you. good on ya girl. bye the way am i in this so called clique ? if not then i wanna no why. just kiddin. come on now why is chat getting brought down? this needs to stop. ive always considered it as one big happy family. just my opinion.

kellie xxxxxxxx

[efc2411]

I agree Lou, great post

[kazzie]

Ohhhhhh Sorry Trac

Was just voicing my opinion

But if my opinion is unsuitable then so be it!!!! lol

Kaz x x x

[trac67]

AARRGGHHHH

Trac

[IrishPrincess]

Well said lou,totally agree.Why is it all of a sudden that there is complaints about chat .The majority of people in there will tell you every1 is friendly and helpful and every1 is made feel welcome and it is a good place to go and have a chat and a laugh with great people,i wouldnt like to think that new ppl read these posts first and decide not to come in to chat because of it.Most people there are warm,kind and very helpful.

Karen

[Sax]

Ok this is getting people het up and stressed and its just another chat post.

Can I just say I came back to chat recently and felt like an outsider! No I don't blame anyone cept myself for being away but can we all remember that first time we entered the chat room, what state good or bad we might have been in and also whether we felt at ease to chat or not.

Also having been in a few times recently the word 'clique' kinda sums up a 'gang' which i feel is the wrong word and is what everyone here is focussing on, but yes chat does kinda seem very familiar with certain members. Now this use to happen when me, trac etc were in but we didn't leave out the quiet ppl or new ppl. Please just be aware that convos can 'take over' the room so its important to remember that a room of 10 might have more than just 3 wanting to talk but some need co ercing (not pushing) just a neutral convo to allow ppl to join in.

Now over the years we have all seen ups and down in chat, lets cut this short and if replying now please stick to answering Jess who'se post this is and not bundle others into sides! This isn't about sides!

Please lets all enjoy chat and not give the admins more aggro and give nic any cause to think about shutting the chatroom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[eeyorelover]

Sax you are absolutely right!!
Great reply!!!
xxx
Sandy

[IrishPrincess]

Sorry Can i just say im not taking sides just genuinely agree with what lou said and didnt want to repeat what was already said.