hate being homeschoold

[The Fool]

hi well through no choice or fault of my own i got taken out of school and am now homeschoold but i am so miserable my mum is always mean when i get stuck or say i cant do things and everyone bosses me around and i never get to have fun like a teenager should i am sick of it but cant go back to school what can i do?

[Lilith1980]

Why cant you go back hun, if you dont mind me asking?

I imagine it must be hard being stuck indoors when you want to socialise with the other students.

Is your Mum teaching you then or do you have a private tutor?

xxxxx

[The Fool]

i got kicked out and i am to scared abd i got bullied to much to go back and yes my mum teaches me

[Lilith1980]

Is there no way you can apply to go to another school hun?

Maybe you should take some time to go out for a walk each day, if you can, to clear your head and give yourself a break hun.

xxxxx

[jill]

Hi,

I can relate to your problem in sooo many different ways, my heart goes out to you.

I would like to say first, WELL DONE, on taking an active step to help yourself, it can be hard even talking to people about your problems, BUT, you have made a step forward to helping yourself by being on this site, PLEASE, hun, see this as a positive, a small step forward to sorting things out, YOU are doing great, be proud of yourself, you are a strong and brave young lady.

I am sorry to hear that you where bullied at school, I know at first hand how this feels, as a child, I was bullied to. At the mo, I am dealing with my daughter who is 14, she has had girls and boys picking on her in school and I'm in the middle of sorting things out for her and helping with her negative thought pattens, helping her to understand that school is not the bady, its the bullies that are the bad in all this. she has had 2 days off school bacause of this, her anxiety levels went high and she felt sick and had very bad pain in her chest, all anxiety symptoms, due to what is going on, but she knows, with time and support from her family and school, this problem will be sorted. She is back in school now.

I allso know how hard it is for YOU hun and your mum, home schooling is not easy, I am sure your mum thought at that time, it was the right thing to do. My daughter had a pa in school a few years ago, it took her 5 months to get back into shcool, I had to home school her, ohh boy, it was not easy.

My daughter is a recovering anxiety panic suffer. Hers started many years ago, I will not go into that, but will say, she has and does, ALWAYS move forward on sooo many things, but has little blips from time to time.

I myself came to this site suffering panic, high anxiety about mmm ohh don't know how long ago now LOL. I am, panic and high anxiety free now, but feel I still have alot to learn.

The one thing I can see, with you, right now, is you can't see away out of your situation, you feel trapped. If I was to ask you a quetion, can you think about it for awhile?

If I was to say to you, what do you want to change about your situtation, what will help you move forward, can you give that a little thought? Always remember, there are ways out of any situation. Please, don't look back at the passed and say, I wish this or that had not hapened, remember we cannot change the past, but we can plan for a positive future.

I don't know your full story, WHY your mum took you out of the school, was the school not helpfull with the bullying? As, Lilith said, is it possible for you to go to another shchool ? or is this a problem for you, do you feel that the bullying problem has not passed ? do you feel that it may happen again?

I ask this question because, if the bullying is still in your mind and you fear it, this problem NEEDS to be addressed, eg, counciling, did you have any counciling at all?

I know that I hit a problem with my daughter being home all the time, her mind was NOT being uesed to deal with other kids her own age. Allthough I had to put a stricted routine into her school days, I new, in my heart of hearts she was bored. At one point, I even put a PE lesson in her school week, we would go to the park for an hour twice a week and kick a ball about. Ohh boy, the shcool could not understand this at all. BUT, I new my daughter NEEEDED this, she needed to get out of the house. As far as I was concerned, it was in my daughers best intrest to try and stimulate her mind. Even in school, there is a little bit of fun in there day to day routine.

Hun, do you want to go back to school?

Have you talked to you mum about how you feel? you use the words, can't go back to school, is this beacuse you fear it?

Please, hun, talk, talk, talk, about your problem, with alot of hard work, time and support this problem, CAN be sorted.

My daugher always said, she NEVER, ever, wanted to go back to school, she feared it, I know that it was NOT the school she feared, but the fear of another panic attack, so hun, what is your fear? Have a really good think about what you would like to change, Keep talking, keep postsing, we are all here to help as much as we can. All problems have a begining, a middle and an end, but sometimes that ending dose not come quick enough, so add patiance to that.

I do understand what you are going through, but you have to try and look for positive pathways to change your situtation. I know this can be dame hard. Is there anyone you can talk to at home?

YOU TAKE CARE, sending you a big hung, ( my smilies are not working )

LOVE JILLXXXX