At the risk of being labelled a 'Dutch Uncle'; in the relatively short time that I have been accessing this site I am saddened that many members describe themselves in the most negative terms via their user-names and icons. There are even three icons in use (mad, madness, notworthy) which support this. While I appreciate that such descriptions are symptomatic of self-esteem I strongly counsel against their use. We are not mad, we do not have broken minds etc. We are people who are addressing our problems (repeatedly in some cases-including my own) but we, unlike so many others are not burying our heads in the sand and pretending that nothing is wrong. In many cases we are paying the price for the failings and insecurities of others. Come on folks, we've all met people who go through life pretending that nothing is wrong and harming others in the process.
I'm fortunate, at the moment, I'm on the up (for the greater part) but who knows when I'll be back down again. Thus I urge people to try to be positive (not easy I know) and continue to be supportive of each other. Perhaps form local groups or try to make local contacts via this website for more personal interaction-it beats cyberspace every time! I'm in Southampton with a lot of time on my hands so if anyone wants to get in touch they're very welcome. We all need each other.
'Doesn't he go on?' you'll probably say. Perhaps you're right. But think about it. Please.