Bees and wasps are another favourite of mine too (add it to the list)
Just for the anaphalactic (sp) shock aspect.
I try very hard not to let the kids know of my nut fear - although at my worst I really freaked out when my oldest was etaing a bag of peanuts
Now I let him eat chocolates with nuts etc in them and just tell him I don't like them.
Do sit quietly panicking if he comes near me with the offending choccie in hand but really don't want to give him a fear of nuts (especially since I fully intend to conquer mine one day!!)
Unfortuntely he has the wasp phobia (I take total blame) and runs a mile from them - my boyfriend goes mental!!
Lucky