I suffer from social anxiety, have done since being a little girl. I started having anxiety attacks a couple of years ago and can get extremely paranoid and always feel the need to please everybody, even though sometimes the other people are in the wrong. I am having problems with my mother at the moment, well its been forever really. She has belittled me all my life and makes me feel guilty for everything I do. I am 36 now with 3 children of my own and yet she can still make me feel like this. I was just wondering if any of you thought that my anxiety and paranoia has been caused because of the emotional abuse I am suffering. I haven't really thought of it as emotional abuse up until now but I have even thought about taking my own life because of how she can make me feel. The pain I am feeling at the moment is unbearable and I am constantly crying and this isn't right in front of my children or partner. My partner says she is a bully and he won't visit her with me at all now. Can anybody offer me any advice, thank you