I know this is not strictly health anxiety related but just wanted some other peoples opinions.
My cousin has terminal ovarian and womb cancer, she is 54 and was diagnosed 2 years ago and has undergone 2 big operations and loads of chemo and now there is no treatment left.
In past 2 years she has been in alot of contact with me asking all the questions that she didn't understand from her Dr's as she knows I know about medical things!!! suddenly a few months ago she stopped contacting me as did her sister ( they are very close). I assumed things were bad and that neither wanted to talk about it as my cousin has always been in denial about the cancer.
I have finally spoken to her sisters husband who has confirmed my suspicians that the lack of contact has been because neither of them can face being asked anything as they get very upset. I have assured the sisters husband that I will not ask any questions if either of them contact me. I will wait and see what happens.
I feel in an awful situation - I do not want to ring either of them becasue how on earth to I have a conversation that totally ignores this horrific situation but don't want them to think I don't care. I am hopeful that now I have spoken to the sisters husband things will become easier.
I know this isn't about me and I shouldn't be upset at the lack of contact but in such an impossible position and just wondered what anyone else would do??