Does anyone else feel like me sometimes? My husband has been suffering with panic attacks/health anxieties for the last 3 or 4 years and I have been suffering alongside him. I know it is an illness and it's immensely hard for him to control and cope with but sometimes, just sometimes I feel like giving up on it - not him, just 'IT'. 'IT' has been the centre of our marriage all this time and 'IT's' getting in the flippin. way! 'IT' has made him become and self-centred, selfish individual who puts himself way before me and the children in most cases. I know he doesn't mean for this to happen, but when will it all stop????? How do us 'partners' continue to live with this without becoming sufferers ourselves?