What do you look for in the opposite sex and what happens when they don't treat you as you expect them to?
I think most of us on here feel lonely, even when we have a good partner, lots of friends or family around us. Why? Because we feel no one understands us.
So what do we need from a partner? Firstly of course, we should find someone we feel who understands us.
What sort of person might that be?
Would these traits attract you?...........someone is sensitive, caring, gentle but strong, loving, someone who is always there for you, someone patient, someone who is able to reassure both in words and comfort, someone who is tactile who loves giving hugs and affection, someone we feel we can talk to about all our worries without fear of attack, someone who maybe is a bit of a worrier, someone who takes pride, someone who is maybe a bit of a perfectionist, someone who is conscientious, someone we can connect with, someone who always thinks of others feelings, someone who feels guilt if they feel they hurt someone, someone to feel safe with etc.
Who has those traits? Well.......how about an anxiety sufferer? ........so then why should we feel we can't be loved?
What happens when we meet someone who attacks us because they don't have the understanding and patience for our traits?......We beat OURSELVES up and ask ourselves what's wrong with US!
Tell me out of all those traits above what's WRONG with US?.......if you can't see any then why beat YOURSELVES up for being the LOVABLE person you are???