advise needed how do i ?

[lane12]

hi im not sure this the right board to post on but im in a right state ,the reason for this is that my hubby goto go in hospital for a heart opp and its not a local hospital near us ,ontop of me being anx/and panic about this i am also panic over the traveling there as ive not travel far for years ive got this problem of panicing over not having a toilet when i need one sounds silly i no especally on long journeys it like a cycle the more i panic about not having a toilet near by the more ipanic and wanto go this all part of my anx can anyone tell me how to try and deal with this as i do need to be there with him any advice please am desparate xxx

[chalky]

Hi Lane,

Good luck for your hubby's operation.
Planning ahead can prevent problems.
For your journey,make sure it includes a comfort break for you.
at the hospital,get the staff to show you where the loos are.
Don't drink too much before you go.
Best wishes,
Chalky

[milly jones]

i presume ur going by car lane?

perhaps as chalky says plan ur route via stopping points eg tescos to visit the toilets.

remember tho its the fear of not having a toilet near thats fuelling your anx, if u know that theres a toilet soon it may help.

lane while your on, best of luck with hb op. try to keep time to come online in the recovery time and we will help as much as possible. and look after urself too hun, your hb will need u healthy.

all my love milly xxxxxx

[LindyF]

Or you could find a cheap b & b near the hospital for the first couple of nights then when you know he is ok your mind will be in a better frame to cope with the travelling. xxhugxx

[lane12]

hi all thanx for the advise linda im staying in accomidation at the hospital so once im there i will be ok apart from worying over hubby its just getting there thats my problem milly thank you and i will give him your best wishes xxxx