Hi, I feel I just need some hugs and support, nothing drastic really, just had a bit of a dodgy time, wont go into full details but involves my mum having her first op in 87 years my son having surgery for a bleed last week, appears not to have worked so will prob mean more surgery on Monday, not so straight forward though as any general anaesthetic is life threatening, due to a condition he suffers, lost hours at work and struggling with house and may be re possesed, these are the few things I choose to mention, others in the pipeline,just feel things becoming hard again at mo.