I did it...we have new names
Not quiet a success story, but in my eyes its a start for me to be on the road to recovery. Those that know me, know what has happened and how I am struggling even now to come to terms with the events of last year.
Having the same surname as my ex..and for my children to have that name too has been a big bug bear of mine...everytime someone address me or my children with that name I inwardly cringe..knowing what my ex is and I have hated the fact that we still have his name....but....no more
Officially from this evening...me and my three youngest children, now have the same surname as my boyfriend, who truly is one in a million. Next step now is adoption, Carl my boyfriend now wants to adopt my three youngest children (the other three are too old) and we are now awaiting the forms from the Courts.
I told my three youngest tonight that their names are now different, to which little Travis who is 5 said...'but mummy, I don't know how to spell it'
They are all so happy that they have the same name as their 'daddy' because Carl my boyfriend is the best dad I could ever have wished for them to have.
Kaz xx
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