Re: My depression is harming my relationship
Wow, that OP could have been written by me (or my partner).
We've been together for 4 years, and 18 months ago were planning a wedding and emigrating. Then my 'breakdown' happened and my whole world turned upside down. A lot of frustrations and insecurities crept into our relationship, leading to snapping at each other & arguments, which added to the stress/anxiety/depression, and it became a vicious circle.
It got to the stage where she would pick fault, nag & criticise, and say she'd be better off away from me, and I would scream at her to F** and leave me alone then.
Thankfully, during more peaceful moments, we are able to talk more rationally, and even though we both now accept that life has thrown us a curve-ball and interfered with our schedule, the plans are basically still the same, but with an amended time-scale. It is going to take a bit longer than we had originally planned. We joke that we still have the same destination, but we've taken a diversion along the 'scenic route', which might take us longer to get there, but we will get there, together.
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