Just wanted to post on here to explain why i feel i can help people and to relay my story with no inhibitions about who i really am.
Fitrstly Nic trusted me to be an administrator which i was really hounered to feel she trusted me so much.
So now i feel i can tell you all about me and why i know how you or some of you feel.
I have clutched my heart and wanted it all to end, i have looked at my daughter and wanted to stop being a mother, I have hit the bottom where no one could pull me out of it apart from Sam (my daughter)
I can honsestly say this illness took over my life and her dad who she doesnt get on with had to take her as i couldnt cope. It made me worse but i had no choice but to resign myself to the fact that i couldnt be a mother. His girlfriend at the time took over from me and that hurt but seeing or hearing Sams voicd scared me to where i couldnt breath.
That pain killed me and i let someone down who depended on me for nothing more than trust and love. I was scared to be near her in case i lost it and hurt her, imagine wanting to hurt something that gave you the reason to live.
At times it still gets to me but i hold on to how much i love her and how she has kept me going and this post is from the heart and probably the most honest one i have done.
Maybe i sound shallow, but i achieved what i needed to and that was to trust in my love for Samantha and not let anxiety dictate how i feel. But again it did last night so in panic i shut her bedroom door and mine so i couldnt be near her and thought about taking a disazepam but i wanted to fight it alone and did and although i didnt sleep my thoughts went away. She woke up through the night which she never does but i believe that was to test me and yet again i cuddled her and wont let this beat me.
This isnt a positive post i know that but it is one that i wanted to share with you all. I advise people and it is only through experience and through caring but it is time that i should be honest and tell it how it is for me at the moment.
It isnt good and i am having those horrible thoughts and i truly would prefer to be dead than think them. Sam is my life and if i ever let her down i wont forgive myself.
Being honest and just wanted people to see i am human and not coping.
Any adivce on site i give is from the heart and to help those who suffer but maybe after reading this you will all want to dismiss me.
Although ashamed about how i feel i will post it as its time for me to be honest and that is the least i can do.
No longer is the brave face after what has happpened at work this last week.
Love Sal xx
Dont mess up the best things in your life, just because at present you are unsure who you are.