Re: Upset about something trivial!
Hi mothermac
I understand how your feeling and i dont in any way think it was trivial how you felt.
I remember when my fiance died when i was 21 my mum made me sell mine and his engagement rings because she said it would make me dwell to much everytime i looked at it. But i felt so sick with guilt when she took them from me because i felt as though he would think i didnt care or that he thought id forget about him like he never existed.
But the thing is he could never disappear from my memory or from my heart while im alive. Just like your dad you'll always remember him and think of him whether youve got memento's or not because of who he was and how much you loved him he will always stay alive in your memories.
Dont punish yourself hun your mum has just decided its time for her to move on. She will always have her memories and thats something no one can ever take away.
Take care
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I'VE LEARNED THAT PEOPLE YOU CARE ABOUT IN LIFE ARE TAKEN FROM YOU TOO SOON....AND THE LESS IMPORTANT ONES JUST NEVER GO AWAY....AND THE REAL PAINS IN THE ASS ARE PERMANANT.
Lesley