Hi i think i have social phobia or it could be the avoidant disorder thats been spoken of on here. i'm 27 now and as far back as i can remember i've had serious problems with social situations. but now i have a daughter and i'm so worried for her with how bad that i can get. me and my partner moved from a supported housing into a normal housing estate with our daughter been here a year now and i've got serious issues with the neighbours some days i'm marginaly ok but others i avoid them like the plaque and they are very social people they are fairly good friends with 2 other neighbours on the street. When i first met them all i told them that i get very shy alot and to not think i'm being rude. a year on and they act different the ones who live next door speak to us only cause they live so close but the others barley speak to us atall. i'm so frightend most of the time seeing them everyday its making my life misery and i struggle to look after the place most of the time plus look after my daughter and often the place is in a real state and i'm always worried what they all think of me. i'm always threatning my boyfriend with running away i know that sounds bad but it gets so completly overwhelming most of the time. i've been telling him i want to move somewhere else but he doesn't want to. I could go on but i won't is there anyone out there who gets this bad nearly all of the time? by the way i don't work and rarley go anywhere on my own