Im 30 now and havn't had a relationship since my panic attacks started in 2003/2005, (still unsure about this) ive had encounters and brief meetings that lasted a few weeks but im starting to worry that im going to be alone because of my condition.
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My credentials are simple:
Im un-employed for the forseeable future
Dropped out of university in the 2nd yr due to panic going haywire
All my friends live away from where im living
I have a 14 yr old daughter who lives with her mother
I live at home
Have no car
Can't catch a bus
Can't walk more than 400 metres without thinking im going to drop
My family drifts in and out in terms of understanding my condition
No money in my account and none in my pocket
Pride smashed to pieces
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Let me back up before my panic disorder became a disorder. I was active in all senses of the word, to the point of cockiness and agression if anyone wanted cause me a problem. Fully into sports, loved driving (before i go tbanned) and travelling in general. Spent months abroad alone doing crappy jobs but enjoying the atmosphere regardless. Worked so many jobs i got bored bcuz i reached the maximum potential that the job had to offer and got bored. (or fell out with someone trying put one over on me or talk down to me for no reason)
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Had a phone conversation with one of my friends the other day as she declared that she was destined to be alone.
I thought " tell me about it, cuz from where im sitting, you have no idea ".
Have to stop typing now as my heart has decided to remind me im ill.
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EDIT:
I am making efforts though such as:
Reduced my smoking to 12 a day from 20
Walking with my step-sis 2-3 times a week close to the house for 10 minute incriments
Starting group therapy in a few weeks
On the list for CBT from my psychologist (after failed psychology in another area)
Only drinking a maximum of 4 caffeine drinks a day (obviously not red-bull etc)
I do not drink alchohol at all these days
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I don't like nor want to be alone,
anyone else feel like this?