Please someone give me a hug, just put the wicked witch ( my mother 85) to bed. She has hated me all my life, I've never been good enough! I have my own life and family - she can't manage and doesn't want to go into a home so who has to look after her????? She doesn't get I've had depression and anxiety for years, and she's making it worse !! Put into perspective, I was raped as a teenager, but she said "lets just forget about it!" Will never forgive her but here I am as principal carer??? The b*stard who did it is now dead by the way - got away with it, I was to traumatised and had lack of support, but he must be in hell now Sorry please guys send me a hug!!!!!! I need one, thanx for being thereXXXXX