Okay I’m just complaining here but if I don’t I’m just going to scream. I am so sick of relying on people to help me, but that’s reality and where I am right now! 6 months ago I couldn’t hold a job, stayed in my room all day, and barely ate. These days I’m working, playing with the kids, doing things on weekends, etc. but sometimes I just need help. Yesterday I was having a panic attack at the end of my work day. Everything hurt, and I was convinced my heart was going to give out. That went on for 3 hours but I managed to finish work. So I asked my wife to cancel a hair appointment, which she said was fine because she had to work anyway.
Well while waiting for her to get home, our 2 year old had a meltdown. After 3 hours of freaking out it was just too much. She was still at work (almost as long as she might have been at the hairdresser) and I called and said I needed help. So she came home.
Tonight I told her I’m going to the store after work to get some things. And she said it wasn’t fair that she had to cancel her hair appointment yesterday and I could go do what I wanted.
What the *&*& is that???? I haven’t been out of the house to do anything for myself in over a month because of this stupid anxiety. I’m a prisoner of my own head. And yet, I finally say I’m going to go do something and I get that????
I dunno. I know it’s hard on our spouses and partners but at some point I need some support or I’m just going to stop trying. I’m sick of asking for help from everybody…as sick as they are of giving it, apparently.