Warning feeling sorry for myself day

[bluebottle]

Just to add Ali, feeling sorry for yourself is something that will happen, but don't allow it to hang about. It is counter-productive and it is far better to remain positive. Yes have a cry and get angry if it helps, but then refocus on your progress.

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Blue
"Your truth is better for you than someone else's. Just get to know what it is, so you can finally own it, and speak it."

[alihud]

Thanks to you all for your wonderful replies and birthday wishes.I am feeling more positive today,when i got home last night the kids were great,in very high spirits and we sat and watch Spring watch which is something i care very much about,the kids loved it too,it really lifted me.Have had some lovely presents,a beautiful butterfly necklace being one.
Work has been extremely quiet the last week,its very unsettling when your self employed and with my mental attitude i get down very quickly,guess cos its all on my shoulders.Isn't it funny tho when you get one of those dreadful moods it is extremely hard to shift it(unless your watching springwatch with the kids!)
I am so glad i have got all of you and that i here for you all too.See you in chat later.
Ali xxxx

[nomorepanic]

Ali

I missed it being your birhtday as you are not in my birthday alarm website so sorry about that.

Happy Birthday!!![:P]

Nicola

"Nearly all happiness comes into our lives through doors we don't even remember leaving open"

[henri]

happy birthday ali!
glad you are feeling better today,
henri x

[Karen]

Happy Birthday Ali.

Glad you are having a better day today.

Karen



It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere.

[zena]

Happy birthday Ali.
Sounds as if you are having a better day.
Kids are amazing aren't they. Pains any other time but boy they cheer you up no end when you need an up liftment.
I found that councelling had the same effect sometimes. They have a habit of bringing things to the surface that you need to face. Unpleasant at times I know, but, the feeling I get from you is that you are a strong person who can cope with things. You have upto now.
Have a big hug from me!


with good wishes

Zena