Although I suffer generally from anxiety and, at times, depression, the main reason I avoid places is due to something that causes me great embarrasment. My life is totally ruled by my fear of violence, either towards me or just witnessing it happening to anyone. This first started when I witnessed a large fight in a pub and it has escalated from there. I also worked in a canteen at a college and for the last 2 years that I was there, myself and my workmates endured verbal abuse, a lot of fights between students, and 2 students were stabbed. I also had a firework set off behind me in a coridor. I eventually could not cope with the violent atmosphere and left,I now work in a school with no problems at all. However,my fear of violence has grown so large that I avoid so many places, as you can never be sure that you will not encounter it at any time and anywhere. I have had CBT, medication, seen a psychiatrist and a psychologist but unfortunately, this has not been successful.
I have also searched for phobias regarding this problem, and although there seems to be phobias for almost everything, I have never come across any information for my particular problem.
Today, when my daughter was walking home from school with her friends,they passed a group of girls from another school close by to my daughters. Their was a bit of an argument and one of my daughters friends was hit in the face by one of the girls from the other school. I am now worried about my daughter going to school tomorrow in case something happens to her. My son has also been set upon twice by kids from this other school and I was terrified for him for weeks after it had happened.
I just cant see any way to overcome this problem, and I feel so desperate.I have been like this for the past 10 years or so but it has got worse the last few years and I am finding it increasingly difficult to cope with it.
Sorry that this post is so long, but I am really at my wits end. Is there anyone out there who has any experience whatsoever of the kind of anxiety that I have got?
Thanks a lot for reading this
Kate x