Help me." The words echo through my head as a prayer. Who I am praying to I have no idea, but the words repeat anyway... again and again.
My heart is beating way too fast, pounding against my chest, trying to escape, or explode, I don't yet know which.
The adrenaline kicks it, the fight or flight instinct, but I have nowhere to run and noone to fight. I wonder how high the pulse rate must be before one's heart collapses, explodes into a million pieces.
This thought sends me to the next dangerous level. I gasp for breath... a searing pain crushes my shoulder and lungs... a heart attack at 35, I think.
My hands are trembling, my head is spinning, I am so dizzy.
I glance around me at coworkers busy typing away, and I hope that when I collapse, it is not a huge scene, and it is with some grace. I hope the ambulance arrives quickly. I want to see my daughter again.
Heart beats faster now. I didn't think it could get any faster. Throbbing in my ears and my head. Standing on the edge of a cliff... my stomach tickles the way it does during that first downhill ramp on a roller coaster.
Skin tingling now... harder to breathe. Every muscle contracts, I feel stiff as a board. There is no air. I'm hot and I'm cold.
Whole body is shaking now... hurts everywhere. I am having a stroke. An aneurysm. Can't think. Can't breathe... can't see...
"Help me."
I wrap my arms around myself, trying to comfort the frightened little girl inside and protect her from danger.
My mouth is so dry. I sip my juice and start to choke. Can't swallow. Can't relax.
Shhhh, I whisper. It will be ok. You've been through this a million times and nothing bad ever happened. You will come out of this soon, just try to relax.
"But I can't breathe," the little girl in me pleads for some kind of relief.
I don't know what to think. I will never feel good again. This state is forever. There's no safety. There's no peace.
And then...
I am able to take one deep breath and my heart beat slows. I sip my juice slowly and I am able to swallow now. I feel my pulse and it no longer seems to hate my body.
I feel spent... somewhere between euphoria and exhaustion. The way you would feel after intense sex, or on the first day you begin to recover from the flu.
For a moment, I begin to worry that it's beginning again.
And then... I let it go.
And all the while, those around me don't have a clue that I have just been on a ride of horror. I've learned to hide it well.
This is what a panic attack feels like.