What do you fear the most ?

[zena]

I have a fear of being sick in public and also like lassygirl can't stand the dentist...would rather go through labour!!!

with good wishes

Zena

[existential crisis]

argh! being sick/'contamination' is number 1...closely followed by the dentist!!!

*I think, therefore I am.*

[sal]

Just seeing the results of that poll has helped me loads as again i have being reminded that how i feel i am not alone. Thanks.

Love Sal xx


Dont mess up the best things in your life, just because at present you are unsure who you are.


"Life is a distance and to travel that distance you were given the strength and guidance to do so".

[denise84]

i put going mad as i always think im gonna end up in a mental hospital or something, maybe i just havent came to terms that panic attacks is something most people will expierence at some point in there lives it just feels so un normal.

dmcgovern

[littleroseofsharon]

HELLO I fear all of them, but also most of all my fear is myself. Its as if I am in my own personal prison in my mind from panic attacks. Sometimes there seems like there is no hope so I just try to get used to the fact that I may be this way forever. I am 24 years old and scared of myself because Im the only one who can make myself chance. although Im not sure how. If I will be strong anough to change, or if I will wake up twenty years from now and still be agoraphobic. Maria

[sal]

Hi Maria

I understand how you feel and it has being a scary ride for me with my fear scared i would lose control and that fear then turned on being scared of myself with what i could or could not be capable of but there is hope and i although do struggle at times are no where as bad as i was and i am sure with this site you will get all the support i had and realise that in how you feel you are by no means alone on that.

Love Sal xx


Dont mess up the best things in your life, just because at present you are unsure who you are.


"Life is a distance and to travel that distance you were given the strength and guidance to do so".

[jen]

hi

I think the thing i fear most is dying .
I think about it quite alot, along with going mad !!

take care

jen x

[Peru83]

Well guys I'm a bit of a control freak,lol, I like things to be done and be a certain way. So I think the one thing I fear the most is not being in Control. I have to be in control to feel safe, I have always been like that. I have always been known for being a bit of a bossy boots,lol.


Take Carexx

Claire

"Of all the things I've lost I miss my mind the most!"

[kate]

If you analise all the fears expressed here, they all come down to the common fear of not having control of a given situation.

Kate

[tammyg]

Kate, I agree to some extent... it does all seem to come back to control.

My biggest fear is the same as quite a few of you who have replied in this topic, being sick. So I was about to vote 'other'. But if you think about it a fear of being sick yourself is a fear of something you can't control... you just don't know when you are going to feel sick. I suppose though to some extent you can control it, many emetophobes have gone years without being sick.

Again, the fear of others being sick comes down to control I guess, it could happen anytime, anywhere and you will not be in control of this.

Anyway... I decided not to vote in the end lol

Tam x

"We have nothing to fear but fear itself"
Franklin D. Roosevelt