From reading peoples post's, i read allot of how people thought they were going to die etc. I myself have used this term on many occasions when i first had panic attacks......
This made me wonder whether anyone has any near death experiences. I have been in two car crashes, once in a taxi in Burnley and once on my way home from a football match. Fortunately i walked away from both and was not the fault of the taxi driver or my dad who driving the other time as both times someone decided to plough in to the side and back of us whilst stationary. No one was really hurt, although the taxi incident in Burnley was quite scary as my friend got taken away on a spine board........But was he was ok.....
But my only other near death experience happened on 11th may 1985. I was at the Bradford city football club fire. I was only 8 at the time and this was my first ever game. I was sat in the main stand where the fire started. I was only a few blocks away from where the fire started. It was supposed to be a day of triumph but ended in tragedy, this was because we had won the division 3 championship and was meant to be a day of celebration etc but the day ended with 56 football fans losing their lives.
I still remember to this day what happened and how i got out of the stand. I remember being pulled over the wall at the front of the stand and getting on the pitch and looking back at the main stand engulfed with flames and thinking i was sat in that stand and now its virtually gone.
One of the worst bits was for my mum and family, me my dad and brother were at the game and she didn’t know our whereabouts etc. and we didn’t have a car and so had to get the bus home. I remember sat on the bus and seeing the flames and smoke and a sense of numbness. Eventually we got home and my mum was relived to see us.
Fortunately this never put me or my family going to football matches ever again. I have been going now regularly for 18 years and have been to 63 different football grounds. Im now in my 14th year as a season ticket holder and recently purchased a 25 year ticket.....
When the anniversary comes around in may i get quite sad and pay my respects to the people who lost their lives. On the last home game of the season the club always has a minutes silence before the game and that brings a lump to my throat and a tear in my eye.
As you may understand it's not something i talk or as a Bradford fan talk about regularly, but i wanted to share what happened with you all.
Thanks for reading and listening.
Take Care
Robert Flyde