Hi ,
I'm new on here ... and desperate ... i am due to go into hospital tomorrow for a planned caesarian section. i have already backed out of two planned sections at the last minute through intense panic and fear much to my own and other peoples frustration. I am ten days over my due date and this baby has to come out tomorrow no matter what. I cannot back out again.
I am terrified of the anaesthetic - spinal. i am not great with needles but can deal with them.. it's more that i am terrible with medication , the idea that something is invading my body and that once it is in my system i cannot do anything about it , and that is sending me into sheer panic....i met with an anaesthetist who gave me way too much information and now i am just wanting to throw up at the thought of it. i am truly terrified that such is my fear it will kill me , by a drop in blood pressure or a heart attack. I am terrified at feeling everything go numb and not being able to get away. my fear is so severe that although i have talked with medical professionals and friends about it it just isn't helping as i know that i cannot get out of this and as the time looms i am feeling like i am waiting to be excecuted , that is how severe my terror is. i know that people get that i am scared ... but not how scared ... i am seriously terrified that my fear will kill me...i cannot even think or get excited about my baby ... i just feel like i am losing my mind...please , please can anyone offer any words of advice or help ?? thankyou so much in advance..