Hi Bill - I mistook 'older' for 'wiser' your wisdom it seems knows no bounds.
I decided to pop over the road to the florists to buy a large bunch of freesias. When I got back I handed them each a flower for their desks.
I did a sociology course, a while ago and it told about how hard things were for people - hardship, worry, ragged children etc and then said how Mrs Cadbury (of the famous Cadbury factory) would remember the female worker's birthdays and on their day she would give them a rose.
I laughed at the mixed reception this information got.
From the "what use was a rose when you were hungry?" to the deeper meening of
"how treasured that woman felt that Mrs Cadbury would think of them"
Similar in a way to your analogy of the woman and the safe - you have to have a heart to see how much this rose meant to a woman who through drudgery felt she was losing her feminity. Sentimental twaddle?? I don't think so!!!!
All my best wishes to you Bill
June