Originally Posted by
psychocandy
Some of you who know me from here, know that I do have the tendency to get worked up about silly things in my relationship. However, with my med change and other external factors, things have been MUCH better recently.
However, recently, something has been annoying me. Wife is friendly with a fella (john) from her past. Hes married with kids etc and lives not too far from us. Nice enough bloke. I've met him and his wife (amanda), we've been out for drinks with them. We've all been out as families together, they've babysat our son, we've babysat their kids etc. So no problems there. To be honest, wife is friendly with his wife too also.
Only thing is I never met someone who I though was more mobile text message mad than my wife. John is though. He must send, in the evenings and weekends, about 3-4 texts AN HOUR just talking about crap.
Now my wife, like I said, is pretty hot on texting and does spend a lot of time texting her other friends and also amanda, but nothing like the amount john texts (and she feels like she has to reply to be friendly).
Its getting to the point where she has to tell him shes going to bed, so she can watch TV in peace. Or shes got to text him to tell him we're going into a restaurant (at least she stops the texting then!).
Now, I know theres nothing at all going on, and I'd probably be just the same if it were one of her female friends but its just so annoying. It seems so unnecessary to me !!!!
Is it me being silly here and maybe a bit too controlling?