I have dealt with anxiety since I i can remember I'm doing well at the moment but it get worse when life get's busy or have to deal with to many people.
I have been treated for depression twice and people all imedatly said "kids do that to you dont thay" but it was adult's that caused my anxiety to get so bad that i felt like hurting my self just to stop me from feeling the way I was felt.
There are so many thing's that cause me to get all sort of feeling from feeling like i have the shake's, or heart palpatation's, feeling like I have to get away from what where eva I am at the time I start to feel anxious, to deal with the feeling i get i click pen's, tap thing's, swing thing's, rock, at the age of 16 I started cutting my arm's and i didn'y stop un till I was 25y and even today I still get the erge to cut to release my feeling that I can feel building up to point of wanting to run as fast as I can as far as I can. When I do get to the point of needing to run and take off on people I cant tell people I have to leave I just wait till I see a good moment to leave with out causing to much attention to focus on me then I run out till thay cant see me or catch me any more then I keep walking as fast I can till I cant walk that fast anymore then my mind is racing at this point thinking about how people will react once I see them again and if I ran from people that are part of my daily life then it even worse i can stop thinking about how much thay'll worry where I've gone anf why I've gone ect and I. I cant stop walking till the feeling are gone or thay'll just get to bad to deal with.
I walk looking at the ground so that people dont say hello to me but I'm fine when I have at least one of my kids with me but by my self I find it very hard to think about interacting with people in public. At home I find it hard to convince my self to ring up company's to arange payment of bill or change information unless I have more pressing reason like threat of disconection. I have gotten better at this after nearly having to declare bankruptsy and finaly telling me self enought that I have to right to arange payment schedule for bill that aren't going to interrupt daily life if disconected. I still find it hard to ring a company to inform them that i cant pay till ????? date. I wait till I get the get reminder to tell them That I'm paying on certain date. That is just one of the way that my anxiety interrupt's my life.
I hate being home alone or home with mo adult company after my kids are in bed. I leave light's on an TV's on and Radio's and if I fall asleep (which take more time when I'm home by my self than when I'm not) then I have to sleep across the bed so that I wake up when my partner get's home from where eva he was that nigh or i just sleep on his side of the bed. Window have to be covered after dark or I get anxious and if for what eva reason thay aren't covered then i avoid that room till someone cover's the window or till i convince my self that I'm being silly and can bring my self to cover the window but the whole time I'm covering it I'm can feel the feeling coming back to me. I cant go out side after dark by my self because when I turn around to come back in I'm get thought of someone grabing me (or just surprising me some how) which i know would be highly unlikly for many reason like because I just checked 2 sec's before I turn my back. The feeling dont subside till the door is closed and locked and even then I still get silly though's of someone bracking in or did lock the back door and are the window's looked which I would check a 100 time if I wasn't to scared to even leave the room i have made feel safe to stay put in.
There a 1000 thing set the feeling in going and if i cant convince my self that i'm being silly for ever reason but if i cant a logical reason to convince my self to stay calm and deal with the situation then the feeling's start then i might start to tap and if some one seem anoyed or tells me to stop I panic more then the feelings get worse then I try to find a better way to not