Originally Posted by
bluesparkle
hi dan
i read your post yesterday but wanted to go and think about what to write...come back today and you have loads of replies...all very posative,
when i first read your post it could have been me writing it...(but other way round as i am female).
it has taken me along time to get over the past and it does still haunt me but i know i am stronger and better than that and so are you hun.
if i find anouther partner i will not put up with second best, if they cannot give me the respect i deserve.treat me right and except me for me then thats their problem.
as many have said you sound a truly lovely person...
there is someone out there for each of us... i do not have the answer as to where to find them and for the time being have given up looking ...just try to enjoy life and become truely well in yourself...they will turn up in our lives somewhere.
i just want to echo whats been said really and that is the problem is NOT you it is the people that have been around you.
you hang on in there mate and things will come right ok...
also yes here is a lovely caring place and you will get all the help and support you want.
dont ever feel alone...as its hard to do sometimes when you see everyone else (well it feels like everyone else) with partners...you have got all of us behind you.
rach
x