Hi Peach,
I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone. I am pregnant too. I am 9 weeks and 2 days. I suffer from terrible health anxiety, which in turn, is causing me to have a fear of pregnancy. I already have 2 daughter, ages 6 and 4, that were both born by c-section. I had the most wonderful experience with both of their births. I wouldn't change a thing about the births. But now I am feeling like the birth of my 3rd child will be a disaster! I have a lot of support from my entire family and have just recently started to calm down a little. But when I was around 7-8 weeks, I was a walking disaster! I couldn't stop crying, wondering what I had gotten myself into. This baby was unplanned, so that was difficult to accept too. I'm trying to rationalize this whole situation....I fear the c-section, which will only be about a half hour out of the entire 9 months of pregnancy. Why worry about a half hour? It will be over before you know it!
I had a really nice talk with my father about my fears. My biggest fear is that something is wrong with my heart and I'm worried that I will have a heart attack on the operating table. My father so kindly reminded me that these are just fears, not truths. He also pointed out the fact that I am certainly NOT the only person in the world that has ever gone through this. He told me that I am acting like I am the first patient in the history of pregnancies to have a problem with anxiety and panic! He reminded me to let the doctors handle the pregnancy. Do what they say and everything will be fine. And I know in my heart that this is true! So I'm going to go forward with this pregnancy and sometime in June, I will have my 3rd child. And I know that I won't regret it.....you won't regret it either. Children are gifts....don't let your fears take over your life!
You can PM me anytime you need to talk. I think that once you get through the first trimester and your hormones level out, you'll feel a bit more confident. Sometimes, pregnancy hormones act as a protectant and help the mother feel normal throughout the whole pregnancy....no anxiety, no panic, no fears, etc. Maybe we'll get lucky and that will happen to us! Just remember that you're not the only one who is having these feelings....and they will get better and it will get easier!