at whits end....
had the ultrasound today, was ok. babys got a heart beat. tho im 8 weeks not 9 like i though, which is a little depressing as im gonna be pregnant for a longer time now....
whats iced my cake is i got a sms on sat night, my dads had a heart attack, a major one. hes ok, but not great. hes also interstate on his own, its a 10 hr drive from me.
he refuses to come live here with us and he reckons hes just gonna work his guts out till january for money. his doc called me worried about him.....
so am i.....
i feel sick with anxiety at the moment and so sad that i cant feel happy for my baby. i was so upset today that i wouldnt even look at the ultrasound screen. my hubby said the buba is looking like a jelly bean with a heart...lol.
when it rains, it pours eh?
im gonna try to rest now, and of course keep hanging in there. i have to go back to see the *&#%$ doc on thurs to discuss the ultrasound and he wants my blood test results from last yr to see if i need to have another blood test for pregnancy stuff....so much more stress still to come i have no idea how i will cope, or survive for that matter......
whats worse, is the nurse today asked why i was upset, i just said im facing my biggest fear in life with the whole pregnancy thing, and she just tapped me on the knee with big eyes and said- thats totally fair enough- as in, it is incredibly scary thing to go through.....DIDNT HELP LADY!!!! lol.....
argh..im off to curl into a ball and cry in a corner now for a bit and rock back n forth lol.......but true...but lol...lolol.....