Brief history. When I was about 19/20 I fainted in a nightclub and ended up in hospital needing stiches to my forhead and chin as I feel onto a table and step! A few months after this I fainted again in a different night club, although I hadn't had that much to drink. Went to the doctors and they couldn't find anything wrong. I started to dislike night clubs/busy hot places and would feel anxious going and in them in case it happened again and totally cut back/out on drinking (to stay in control).
The following year I had difficulties at work and ended up taking 3 weeks off with depression. I also had problems at home plus the fears that had started of crowded places etc. After the three weeks off work, and now taking Seroxant I eased myself back to work and things started to get a bit better. Three years later I decided to come off my antidepressants, yes three years! The side effects were horrific and it took months to slowly come off them, I ended up taking them in liquid form so I could have a few drops a day to aid the slow come off.
When I was 23 I changed jobs and moved in with my boyfriend, this all within about four months! Yes looking back now it was a lot to do at once, but once I had come off the antidepresants I felt so alive I was ready to take on a higher, more demanding job and move out from home for the first time. Within about six months of this I started having problems with anxiety and leaving the house to go to work (I used to reach and sometimes be sick before leaving). I eventually got signed off for three weeks and put on a different antidepresant. Things were getting better, although I felt the antidpresant wasn't doing anything so at the begning of this year I came off them. In April this year things turned bad again and I ended up taking 5 weeks off work with anxiety and eventually handed in my notice without returning to work as I felt unable to. There were issues at work, stress and a very demanding boss! At no point did I want to go back on antidepressants.
I currently seeing a homoepath. In the main it has taken away the apprehension and I can at least leave the house without being sick or panicking.
So here I am, sitting at home looking for help. I was due to meet friends tonight but felt unable to go and sit in a busy pub, incase I panic or feel weird. I've been here before, but like so many of us it feels worse this time and I'm not sure if it will get better or how.
I now work part time.
Thanks for reading.
Nichola