Hi
I was wondering how many of you have, at some point, been told to "just snap of it", to "pull yourself together", etc. by friends/family members/relatives who know about your problems with panic and anxiety?
How do you handle it, does it upset you, do you feel offended, how do you react when you're told something like that?
I seem to get pretty upset when I'm told to "just snap out of it" because I think that the people around me don't understand what I'm going through. They think that I'm weak, lazy, and looking for excuses for not living a normal life. Which is not true! I even doubt it that mental health professionals, psychologists, and psychiatrists understand what it's like to suffer with anxiety and panic ... The only people who truly understand it, are people who have gone through this, such as people on message forums like this one.
A couple of days ago my dad yelled at me and told me to just stop with all that anxiety because in his opinion, I don't have any "real problems" , just imaginary ones. The paradox is that no matter how irrational a certain problem seems to everybody, it can still be a huge issue for the person who has it. I know that he wants me to be OK, to be happy, to live a normal life, but he's "helping me" in a totally wrong way ... He threatened me that if I don't "pull myself together" real soon, he will kick me out of home, so that I can get a taste of what "real problems" are like.