wow, this thread went crazy!
im not surprised tho, perhaps sex and relationship discussions should be listed along side religion and politics lol...
were all on this website because we all have problems....and we are seeking help/support etc...
male or female and all ages- this should be seen as good, as the advice will be across the board.
as others have said, psychopoet has obviously been burned by women in his life. he hasnt said his views are right, thats why he is on here asking for help with this.....pls reread the title of this post.
my dad has always told me that he thinks all women are out for money and are users (except me of course he would say) haha, no seriously tho, this used to hurt me so so much, until i realised he was so burned in his relationships he has developed this almost defence mechanisim. im not saying he is right, he knows his view is wrong, but i think he wanted to be proven differently. i still love him, he is my dad. i also think that after him watching how i have lived my life, he is changing his ideas- bit by bit.....he now knows that women can be funny, loving and vunerable, just as much as him.....he even told me he loves me this last year!!!!!
now, psychopoet is a different person, but one who has still been hurt badly.
pls dont be mean to him unless you have educational criticism to offer.
im sure he is well aware of how women are treated in 3rd world countries, and its true- sex sells almost everything. i think it destroys everyones idea on who they should be. it makes men think that is what they should have, and it makes women think that is what they need to be in order to have love. these adverts are totally unrealistic...anyway, this is an age old fight that we all know. i read the 'beauty myth' when i was a teen which helped me greatly.
no wonder so many of us are on here with problems...society that we grow up in is so so disfunctional if you ask me. were told we need to be thin, rich, successful, good looking, charasmatic etc and thats just to be accepted...let alone to have a good life....its crazy, how many of us will ever be able to tick more then one of those boxes....dont we all deserve a good life anyway? argh...im going on a bender now hahaha....
love this topic!!!! thanks for bringing it up psychopoet, it is something that concerns all of us to a degree