Found out two months ago i was suffering from depression. At first i was put on Citalopram, and now Mirtazapine, i don't find they are helping that much, plus they give me horrific nightmares.
I take it that you havnt been taking the Mirtazapine for very long ? i t can take quite a while for a dose to stabilise and find the correct dose ;that is called your theraputic dose .
It takes on average 6-8 weeks for a dose to stabilise .You say you have good days and that is a good sign they are starting to work ,Maybe you will need your dose adjusted ,your Dr will do this when he /she thinks its needed.You can get bad dreams on Mirtazapine also on a lot of antidepressants ,but these will lessen and become less bothersome as time passes .As your state of mind and anxiety lifts you will sleep better ;Accepting this is a good place to start ,
I just wonder how much longer my life has to be this bad, and how much longer i can take it all!
I think we have all felt like this I know i did .But you will take it and you will find an inner strenghth ,you will suprise yourself .Your battle has just begun and you are not alone .Have faith in yourself ,you are stronger than you think you are .
I have to go and talk to someone this week but can't see it helping. They say there is help out there but i just don't believe it, i don't think anyone really cares, if your in the gutter that's it i'm afriad,
Talking is an excellent way of release and discovery ,Its part of your journey and it will help you understand why you have been feeling like you have .Dont close the door on things before the door has been opened .Being open to suggestions and help ;you will be starting to get the frame of mind that will carry you through . Issolation and feeling no one cares is just you feeling so alone within .Does it matter who cares at the end of the day ?,You do !otherwise you wouldnt be here ..All drugs and medical assistance will do is help you on your way ,,your recovery is up to you ;You have taken the first step by asking for help all you have to do is take another .You are on your way ...but it wont be a lonely one if you come here for support .Take care and be kind to yourself Luv Suex
From Wayne, redrainbow.