Hi everyone,
Hope everyone is ok. Sorry I haven't been around for so long.....
We had the babies goodbye just over four weeks ago. It was a lovely service. I had my results from the hospital too. Apparently, there could have been things wrong with me that had been causing the babies to die, but luckily I am ok and the baby was also fine, which in a way makes it harder to accept why it happened. My consultant said that if we did try again, he would scan me often and that he couldn't see a reason why it would happen again, although obviously, he couldn't promise anything.
In general I have been doing ok. I have noticed though, that the missed beats are back again, more frequently and they're getting to me again. I have them like I did before, with no pattern just loads most days. I have been feeling generally down about things. my business isn't doing all that well and I am thinking about everyone I have lost, probably because it is nearly Christmas, and down to the fact it hasn't been that long since we lost Reece.
I am hoping for a better 2006, but really need to learn to get over being scared of the missed beats again, I don't want to go back to being so scared of them again.
Take care,
Love, Linda.xxx