Well firstly sorry if this is in the wrong place... I seem to have panic attacks, general anxiety, social anxiety, health anxiety, phobia's, OCD and depression because of anxiety to some degree.
Just looking for a bit of advice. This is bound to be an essay!
I am now in a complete state and just don't know where to turn next.
I've had IBS for about 6 years, and been suffering with anxiety related to that for about 2 years. I dont know why I started getting anxious, I think I must have gone through a rough time with symptoms but I can't really pinpoint it. My IBS has always been manageable with a few short periods of bad symptoms.
Seems like it has just gradually got worse and worse.
Anyway it is now so bad that anxiety has literally taken over my life.
Even if I don't feel 'ill' (e.g. upset tummy, feeling sick, diahorrea) I now can't ever stop worrying that I will feel ill or I'll go somewhere and feel ill whilst I'm there (that I won't be able to get home or get to the loo)
I am now phobic of food (basically because if I don't eat I can't possibly be ill.)
I won't go anywhere there isn't a toilet or walk/take a bus/ride in a car for more than about ten minutes in case I feel ill.
I am phobic of people seeing me panicking or being near me when I feel ill, or in case I feel ill. (therefore I want to be on my own all the time, i'm even scared to the extent that I worry about talking to people on the phone in case I have to cut them short)
I have developed certain obsessions about places I can and can't go, things I have to take with me when I try to go out, things like that.
If I have to go places and I start to panic I give myself an upset tummy and have to rush to the loo.
Basically anywhere that isn't my house makes me feel nervous and like there is a risk of me starting to panic and therefore will lead on to me being physically ill.
When I get ill and need to rush to the loo I then start to take loperamide (i.e. immodium) which usually stops it but then leaves me feeling really lousy and unable to go to the loo for up to about 5 days at a time. And in those 5 days the worrying about when I will need the loo next is prettymuch as bad as when I can't stop going.
It seems like it was the IBS that started the feelings of anxiety (however I did deal with it for a few years with no problems) but now it is the feelings of anxiety which causes the flare ups and I can't stop myself thinking in that way so I basically think I WILL be ill and I can't stop it.
I was put on citalopram with no real results so got taken off them.
I was also seeing a counsellor with no real results. I have been referred to CBT but the waiting list is approx 4 months.
This has been going on for far too long and I am determined 2010 will be the year I beat it but as soon as anything remotely stressful happens I get myself into a state and realise I just don't know how I can cope on a day to day basis.
I always think that now I have experienced this and I think in this way I can never ever forget about it and it will always haunt me and threaten me even if I do manage to recover.
I've not had suicidal thoughts as such but at my lowest have thought the only time this will stop is when I'm dead. I really feel like I can't cope with everyday life now. I can't do my job to my full potential and I can't do the simplest of things like seeing my friends or going shopping.
I just wondered if anyone has had similar experiences or has any thoughts on my story.
Thank you
S