Re: Please don't judge me
One of the most common manifestations in persons with intense and or chronic anxiety, alternatively anxious depression, is the sensation of imminent loss of impulse control. Ruminations about suddenly hurting family members or loved ones is the most common. It is the irrational belief that one's locus of self-control is unreliable and sufferers can either readily visualize the event and methodology that results in harm to others or alternatively are unable to discern precisely how it may transpire.
It is the selective feeling that the usual barriers between bad thoughts and bad actions have been removed and that unknown risk now looms. These patterns can manifest for a variety of reasons, but the most common is the establishment of irrational or unrealistic internal standards which produce constant failure, developing notions of persecution or inequity of some type. This predicament typically invokes constant ruminations about reprisals based on mounting or chonic frustrations which seem inescapable. Although held in check, it produces fears of approching thresholds beyond which lie a loss of physical and emotional restraint necessary to harm in extremely violent ways.
It is the random discharge of this mounting frustration, the origins of which are typically unclear or ill-defined due to their irrational basis, that produces subsequent fears of losing self-control.
It is important to always maintain the reference that while hollywood often depicts meniachal and graphic horror at the hands of seemingly uncontrollable rage, the real-world variety is much less frightening and actual loss of control and awareness of one's actions is not only unlikely, but highly improbable.
You'll be fine. You need to spend some time introspecting to see if you can identify any issues or circumstances which may be invoking patterns sufficient to produce the unwanted results.
Best regards,
Rutheford Rane, MD (ret.)
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Best regards and Good Health