Does anyone here ever feel they geuinely dont belong anywhere? I mean, especially with those who do have friends, do they have the nagging sensation that they simply dont fit in, or that their lifestyle/personality clashes with others?
I now have no social circle at all, and have myself for company 24 hours a day.
In order to try filling that void, I work during the daytime. However, I dont socialise with those at work coz I cant relate to them at all. For them, its a culture of getting wasted every weekend, and being loud.
I also distract myself from my pit by volunteering. While the time is eaten away, it is fundamentally a group of aspie teenagers. As im approaching the big 30, there is a culture clash here too, as these youngsters have their issues over school, and for the majority, seem to be well supported by the social work/education system....nothing like what I got growing up. Overall with the volunteering, their optimism clashes with my everyday pessimism over my own lifestyle. Ive also had reference in the volunteering sessions from these youngsters who make it obvious (through joking) that I dont fit in, and should be elsewhere. I dont blame them.
Finally, the few friends I had, are now lost, as that culture clash continues again. They, like me, are binded by their anxiety issues, however they all have more life experience than me, and find common communion in social drinking. With no social circle whatsoever, Ive never been exposed to that environment until meeting them, and feel disconnected as a result.
I wonder if I can claim to be the only one, at my age, in this situation, who has had no solid friendship whatsoever, and feels like they dont belong, no matter what they try.