I think this is probably more of a self-esteem issue than depression, but since there's no section for that, and it's making me feel pretty awful, I'll post here.
Basically, I don't think I can be around other people, or live in the 'real' world, without feeling awful about myself. I spend as much time as possible avoiding this, wrapped up in my own little universe, distracting myself from the feeling. But I can't go on like that much longer. Sooner or later I'm going to have to find a way to face reality full time, and I don't know how.
Whenever I have to interact with people (beyond my immediate family), I end up feeling bad about myself. It's like I'm constantly judging myself through other people's eyes, and looking for indications that I've done something wrong, for confirmation that they think as little of me as I do. The smallest mishap leaves me feeling miserable. I know it's ridiculous. But it's like I just lose all sense of perspective. Deep down I believe I'm pathetic, and it only takes a tiny thing to crack the confident facade I put up to protect myself, leaving me feeling awful.
I've felt bad about myself for most of my life, and it seems to just get worse and worse. I feel bad, so I avoid people, meaning I have no life, so I feel worse, and on and on it goes. But I don't know how to cope with facing the situation full-time, and breaking the cycle. The only way I got through it at school was the thought that it would all be different when I left. But it wasn't. Because the problem was with me, not the school. So I was miserable at uni, and dropped out.
I want to get 'help', but I'm scared that it will leave me feeling worse. I'm scared of feeling judged by counsellors/psychologists, and when I feel like that I find it almost impossible to be open or honest about how I feel, so I'm not sure how much help that would be anyway.
I also feel like I'd probably just end up doing CBT stuff again, and I don't really have much confidence in that. Maybe I just didn't practice it enough.
Anyway, apologies if this post was a bit garbled - I'm already starting to forget what the problem is and drift back into my alternate reality.