I posted in general anxiety's but I am fit to post here as well. I was the one that wrote anxiety ruling my life. Well, it absolutely is. I need some help. I am petrified of flying which I need to do by June. Or take a cruise which I am also terrified of. My anxiety is ruling my life. I can't eat, or sleep, or function. I can't leave the house. I don't talk to anyone. I have tried the military doctors but they are overbooked or just don't see this as an illness. I have been told to get over it!! Well, I can't!! This isn't a choice. I hate this.