Yes yes yes and yes
I know exactly what you are going through. When I wake up the first thing I feel is my tong and than it's swallow time.
Believe me .... I think it will pass, but it will not be overnight.... it just wil not be. Because that is to easy. I feel the same as you and believe me a lot of people with these problems are.
Sometimes I focus myself 100% on it and get depressive ... so try to do other things ...no matter how hard it is to get the energy ...but staying at home in bed does not going to help you. Because you will be even more busy with it.
You will get there....it will take time but you will get there.
This is tuff, but believe me loud tinnitus is also tuff and I got both..... so it always can get worse.
Try to stay positive and let the anxiety take over your body and don't fight it .... the more you do the harder it gets.
And no I also do not have all the answers, but this feels the same ass the onset of my tinnitus...I was in total panic mode....and now this...but after 2 weeks now I hate it still as much, but I try to not focus on it and I notice my reaction is less panic than before....but I also have a very very very long way to go.
But like I said....if you want you get there ....a lot of people dealt with it and so can we.