My son, Scott

[ditzygirl]

I think you should be proud of yourself for bringing up two fab children, don't worry about your anxiety letting your parenting skills down - your children are proof that you HAVE done a good job. Well done and Happy birthday to Scott and good luck to your daughter.

[JaneC]

Thanks ditzygirl, yes it is good to be able to think sometimes that I must have done something right somewhere (x3 actually, although there is No.2's apparent food phobia to take into consideration). My dad had serious mental health probs, so there was always a worry there.

I'll pass on everybody's good wishes, you are all very kind xx

[ladybird64]

A happy belated birthday to Scott and a big hug for his proud mum.

[sb001f8994]

Belated 18th birthday wishes to your son, he sounds wonderful and you have every right to feel as proud as punch, hope you all had a lovely day xx

[KK77]

Happy birthday to your son Jane - you should be very proud indeed

[ditzygirl]

Poor Jane - a lot to deal but be proud of yourself you are achieving loads.

[JaneC]

Thanks ladybird, Mel and Carol I saw Scott tonight and he says thanks to everybody, too xx