Hi everyone - i am a new user, but i previously joined this forum quite a while ago under a usename that i can't remember. I have been a regular visitor, and have found myself registering again because i don't know where else to turn.
My situation is that right now - im supposed to be in college. My course started 3 weeks ago - and in that amount of time, i have been for only 2 days. For the first week, i was recovering from a kidney infection, and physically couldnt go. Second week started and i got on alright, but by wednesday my old anxieties crept back up on me, and prevented me from going.
Im 19 years old, with a past full of anxieties, but i won't give you my life story here I'm married, and extremely happy with my husband.
This is my 3rd time at college - the first 2 i didn't finish because of my anxiety holding me back. Its all happening again. I do not know what to do. I feel so alone, and i feel i have no one to talk to. I don't have friends (something that depresses me greatly) and my husband is going to get so fed up of me. I can't tell my family anymore - they've seen it all before. I've been messaging my tutor throughout the week, telling her i will see her the following Monday...Wednesday...Thursday...and it just doesn't happen. I don't know what she must think. I phoned the samaritans confidentaly last Monday and got no help at all - the lady on the phone judged me and after a while, i felt i may as well be talking to my own mother.
I feel so scared and alone, but i couldn't tell you what i was scared of. I woke up this morning 2 hours before college starts and i sit on my own thinking "Hmm maybe i will go in at lunchtime today instead of 9am..."
What kind of attitude is that!?
I don't know what i need, i just need something...I don't know what my next step is. College today goes on til 3.30 - its 1.00pm now and i feel rooted to this spot - and filled with dread and worry about what i have to say to my husband when he gets back :(
This is no way to be at 19 - this is no way to live life at all! :(
Im seeing a counsellor who i arranged to see through college, on thursday - but am worrying about what i do until thursday! The easy option would be to sod college until then - but ive already missed enough time!
Thank you for reading this, i just don't know where to turn anymore. I feel hopeless, absoultly hopeless.