dear kate and lucky thankyou for being there x oh im back on the computer again. well i tried everything today the house work kept me busy but i still kept getting a nervous tummy and it winds me up and i get so frightened that im going to have a moment, the feelings kept coming and going i made sure i had some lunch but the phone rang and it totally freaked me out, it was a lady who i work with, she must of thought i was mad or extremely rude cause i told her i couldnt talk she said she wanted to come and see me but i had to just get off the phone i was getting the pins and needles so i said goodbye and put the phone down, how awful of me, i felt i was being awful to her but i just couldnt talk. so i got myself on the sofa and did the breathing which calmed me down ...why did i go like that? then i made myself eat my soup which was really hard ,which is odd for me because i love my food!!! i am finding it hard to eat at the moment but iam making myself...hey you never know i may lose some weight..after lunch i began to tidy the house which was really hard and thats also weird for me cause i love cleaning!!then 1/2 hour before i had to go and get our foster boy a record came onto the radio and it made me have horrible thoughts and i felt a big panic coming on so i went and called my mum who tried to calm me she is being a star i then thought i couldnt collect our foster child from school as i wasnt safe to drive so i called my lovely friend but it went straight onto answer phone which meant more panic so i called my mum back who again tried to calm me then my friend called me and came to my rescue i spoke to my husband in between and he told me to take one of my tablets which im trying not to do because im scared i will come to rely on them, but im so much calmer now. i am going to see a hypnothreapist(hope ive spelt that right not to good on spelling sorry) on monday she called me alittle while ago and sounded really nice and said she could help...fingers crossed.lucky i have no problem telling you about why i fostering its nice for someone to be interested but im abit wacked at the moment so ill tell you later thankyou both for being so wonderful its so nice to know your there bye for now love from mary xx