Cannot cope anymore

[PoppyC]

I posted on the other part.
I have had enough. I cant cope anymore. I feel so useless. Everything I touch seems to get ruined. Why???
What do you do when this happens?
I just want to go away and never be found again.

[paula lynne]

Poppy, youre going through trauma because you lost your beleoved cat, and its the loss of a member of the family. x
You are not useless.
Nothing you touch is ruined, its just life.
I know you are down in the dumps, and feel awful, but I promise you, give it a few days and youll feel better. You are grieving. You are a lovely person going through a tough time, it just seems its all going wrong thats all. Its not really.
Once you feel better, it will all come back into perspective Im sure. Do you have anyone with you who you can talk too? Sometimes a good cry/rant does us the world of good.
You will be ok. x

[ditzygirl]

Poppy

it's okay to feel as you do just now, it takes time to recover from such a loss.

I understand completely, animals give me something I don't find in many humans.

You are not useless - look at what you have done for your cat, rescued him, gave him a loving home, taught him how to trust humans again - thats an amazing skill not useless in my book.
Caring for pets is a big responsiblity and you obviously do it very well, that is something to be proud of.

Keep ur chin up and we are here for u anytimexxx

[lizzie29]

Hi Poppy

Sorry you're feeling so low. Stay strong, it'll get easier. You're not useless at all, you're dealing with something upsetting and most people would find it hard.

Take care x

[yvonne_uk_98]

Hi Poppy C,

Sorry to hear of your loss of your cat, I hope you will feel better soon.

sending you hugs.



Yvonne

[Ayame]

Sorry to hear about your cat.

My 18-year old cat died about 5 months ago - she was killed by a dog by the side of my house. I was home alone and my neighbour knocked on and I was the one who had to move her. It was deeply upsetting and I can really understand how you are feeling, losing a pet feels like losing part of your family and a beloved friend.

Please do not thing bad things of yourself - sometimes bad things happen to people, it doesn't mean that the person themselves are bad, not atall. Take some time to say goodbye to your kitty, have a good cry if you need to xx