First thankyou to anyone who has replied to my past posts, you have all helped so much.
I am struggling today. I feel i cant take anymore.
I have been in a relationship for 10 months with someone who doesnt really understand my condition but he does love me and I adore him so much too. We talked about me moving to be with him since last june and it finally happened on a trial basis at the end of last year.
I stayed for a month, then had the most awful panic attack. I called him at work and said I think i need to go home (probably not that surprising thing to think under the circumstances).. anyway by the time he finished work i was calmer but he told me to pack my stuff in the car, that it would be better for me to be back home. I cried hysterically begging him to let me seehow i felt in the morning but he couldnt.
So I then findmyself back at my place, 20 miles away from him.. he left me there and told me we would still be fine but that i needed to be able to visit him sometimes which i felt confident i could do.
Its been three weeks since i got back. I was told to make a desicion whether i wanted to move back to him or not and was given a date to decide by. Him and his family think i will be better over there and he has all these ideas about me getting back to work etc.. its part of the deal if i want a future with him.
My desicion day was last weds, and on tues night he told me he had had enough, that it was over. I was devastated and told him i would move back and he said ok. The following day I was told that he totally wants me back over there, but I feel scared. He was here giving me cards valentines day then within 24 hours he doent need me anymore.. now he does again.. i am so confused.
So basically I feel scared.. I wake up every morning feeling frightened, strange thoughts, feelings of depersonalization etc.. feeling like this is all just too much. He thinks i am moving next week, but i feel so overwhelmed. I dotn know who to trust or rely on. My friends and family care about me and dont want me to move if its gonna make me even worse - i am in a fragile state right now.. but i love him, and dont know if i could handle losing him either.
Sorry for all this I think i just needed to get it off my chest. I am so scared that my mind is going to just shut down or something and i will have abreakdown please someone reassure me that it is stress and anxiety and that i'm not headed for insanity. my friends and family are all out right now and i literally feel like they are gone, like i dont remember them, even though i do.. god waht a mess.