I'll bump this thread as I think I'll be back in the UK again soon
I'll bump this thread as I think I'll be back in the UK again soon
Yay, back now! Staying at the moment at my Dad's in Margate
If anyone wants to chat (I don't mind about distance or anything as I'm planning to move around and stuff a fair bit anyway!) then post or send me a PM! ^^
Yep, I can sympathise with the above Mike. I had a recent incident where I was getting some very mixed messages from a girl (wants to go out....then doesn't......who knows ). I don't know why people do this and mess you around. Sometimes I think it is not intentionally to annoy you and other times it just seems mean (I'm not saying that it is only women that do this, plenty of men as well).
Like you I tend to get a bit upset about this rather than accepting it as an unfortunate fact of life and moving on quickly. To be honest I think the only way out of this is to date more so you improve your confidence and self-esteem. That way you'll get the attitude that these people are not worth the effort and filter them out rather than feel you have to cling to them. (Easier said than done I know!) I'm gonna be seeing someone about some CBT to try to help me out in this area - I hope you find someone you deserve Mike.
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