Hello Pips, As you can see from this site there are many others suffering from the same "problems." I've had it for 6 years now and the first 4 were hell. I'll just reiterate what others have said. Congratulate yourself - every night when I park the car I wave my fist in the air and shout "Yes!" Remember that the things you worry about, you've done a hundred times before and nothing terrible has ever happened, has it?
Bryn